By loading the Fade Designer, selecting "Options", and choosing the "
Share your Fades..." option, you can send any one of your fades to any screen name.

Installing Shared Fades
    Sharing fades actually just sends a fade file to the screen name of your choice.  In order for Extreme Messenger to recognize the new fade, you must first copy the fade file that you downloaded to your Program Files\Extreme Messenger\Fades folder.  The next time you open your Fade Designer, the new fade should be included in the list.